Cunnilingus
While no two women are exactly alike, there are many things that are universally enjoyed by women.
No matter whether it's your first time going down on your girl or whether you're just looking to give your
wife a little extra pleasure, the following step by step guide will have her raving about your skills.
Start Psychological
Start with the mental aspect. It's a vastly underrated element of a woman's sexuality and is almost
completely misunderstood by the male species. Many women are self conscious about the way they taste and/or
smell, especially when experimenting with a new partner. Tell her how much you're looking forward to
tasting her sweet juices. Tell her you love the taste - it really turns you on. Tell her you're going
to devour every last drop she has to offer. Tell her that you're good at it and you can't wait
to show off your skills. Tell her all these things and anything else you can think of along the same lines. You
want her to be comfortable sticking her crotch into your mouth, so it's best to lay the groundwork
with some sweet talking.
Gentle Stroking
Once you've got her naked, begin with some soft stroking of her inner thighs. Stay away from her vagina, but
let every soft stroke get tantalizingly closer and closer. Direct the strokes from the knees towards the vagina.
This may tickle her a little, but she'll love every minute.
Positioning
Position yourself comfortably so that your mouth is comfortably at clit level. You can be in any
number of positions, but it's important that you're both comfortable.
We highly recommend the laying flat position for beginners as it is easy
and intuitive. Once you're set, begin by softly kissing the outer lips of the vagina. Work your way around,
teasing the lips with your tongue.
First Contact
As you reach the clitoris, dart your tongue in from underneath the clit and
give it a good lick from the base to the tip. This will give you a good indication of how much
direct clitoral stimulation she can take at this point. Keep stimulating the area around the clit and
the clit itself until she can take direct stimulation. For some women, this will be immediate, for others, you'll
need to tease the area a bit before she can handle the direct contact.
Engage the Clitoris
Most of the time, you can actually feel the clitoris harden and swell with blood. This is a sign to you
that it's time to focus on her pleasure button. Once you begin working hard on the clitoris, you can
use a variety of techniques, but don't take your lips, tongue
and mouth away from it. It's vital that you give the clit constant attention. You'll find that some women
like different types of strokes than others, but, for the most part, you can simply wail away with
your tongue back and forth across the clitoris to get the job done. Or lick it like a thirsty dog
lapping at an ice cream cone.
The Home Stretch
Many women will start to buck and moan at this point. Their legs may start shaking and many will
actually start thrusting their vagina deeper into your mouth. In some cases they're trying to position
their clit just right on your tongue, but most of the time they're just enjoying the ride. In any case,
this is the time to really dig in, intensify your efforts and go after the clitoris until she's spent.
Try a clitoral blowjob when she's deep within the throes of
ecstasy and she's likely to go over the edge with a mind blowing clitoral orgasm.
Mopping Up
Be careful here, as a large percentage of women become hyper-sensitive in the clitoral area just after
orgasm. Even the tiniest touch can be painful. Most will push you away from the area when they're through. Don't
sweat it. Your work is done.
Close the Deal
Tell her how she has the sweetest taste to her. Tell her you really can't believe how good it was
and how much you enjoyed it. Trust us, she'll be back.
